It’s been three years and two relationships later, and I still miss her when I’m horny.” — Mark, 33. I disagree that it shows that those were some of the best times of your life. I haven’t had any real contact with my ex for probably close to 6 or 7 years. Over the past 5 years I periodically Googled her name and didn’t find much (no surprise, really, since I figured she married and changed her name). It’ll be three years this New Year’s. But, of course, the internet has changed that. Because your ex was a part of your life, and that experience is part of what shaped you into the person you are today. Now, present-day, my friend from Arizona invites the same 10 people over to drink and hang out -- including this former BFF. “I miss her when I miss someone touching me. A lot of people (myself included) think this means that they are still in love with them. Again, pride. These thoughts don’t find their way into your head because you miss your ex, but because you miss the innocence and newness. What helped me WAS seeing him years and years later. Sometimes if you see your ex in a dream, it means that you just want to have what you had with them. In the past such musings just were just pie-in-the-sky daydreams. Around a year later I started dating my current partner who I’ve been with for 9+ years. (Granted, it was a pretty hot and steamy year). You might think that you've moved on — and really believe it — but, suddenly, you realize that you're still thinking about your ex. You want to have those feelings for someone again. I think girls hug and touch their friends and family pretty frequently, but for a single guy — I can go weeks without another human touching me in any kind of affectionate way. Getting older sometimes means losing the excitement that … Your heart, though, isn’t “done” with the ex. But this isn’t necessarily so. And yet 20 years later I still think of Sarah. The adrenaline you feel even thinking all the firsts you shared with him is only natural. What I think is so odd, is that he is the only ex I dream of in that way, and we were only together for a little over a year. I was married before him, have dated and had serious relationships after him, including my husband now who I have been with for 8 years. In the end, it seems that thinking favorably about an ex is a sign that you still haven’t gotten over the breakup. My nightmare started on June 1, 2017 and now 2+ years later I think I am really making personal strives to continue moving forward. Then you really have perspective smacked over your head. If you can’t talk on the phone or be in the same room with your ex-spouse without feeling your stomach clutch, then you’re still attached. 4. There are some minor problems in the relationship but for the most part we’re very happy together. I think many people feel this way for an ex but would never admit it years after the fact! People often dream about their exes for years after they break up. There are times when I wish I could just sit down with my ex and ask the why’s but I know that nothing he could say would help, he made me believe his lies for 20+ years. But recently something came up. I’m glad you recognize that your current partner is way better than the ex.

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